Embarking on a single mother adoption journey, Paige Bramlett first met William, a 5-year-old needing a stable home, in 2019 while working as his elementary school behavioral specialist.
Moved by his situation, she became his foster parent at 24, and despite the challenges of being a young, single mother, she remained committed to his care.
By 2020, Paige secured her foster care license, and a year later, at 25, she legally adopted William, making their bond permanent.
Now raising two children independently, she uses her online platform to share her experiences and offer insight into the foster care system.
Her single mother adoption journey was not without challenges. Still, Paige remained resilient, believing every hurdle was part of a greater purpose.
“I always knew that I wanted to adopt before having biological children, but I never imagined I would adopt through foster care, especially at such a young age and while I was single,” Paige tells PEOPLE.
Paige’s adoption journey was filled with challenges, but she trusted that everything was unfolding as it should.
The COVID-19 pandemic made the process even more complicated, disrupting visitations, therapy, school sessions, and court hearings, which added to the uncertainty.
Beyond logistical hurdles, Paige also faced skepticism about her age, particularly in legal and school settings.
“I was often met with skepticism, simply because I didn’t fit the traditional ‘parent’ mold. That frustration taught me to advocate for my child and for myself,” she explains.
Determined to advocate for herself and her child, she stood her ground, asked tough questions, and refused to be overlooked.
Through persistence and unwavering commitment, she proved that love and dedication—not age—define what it means to be a parent.
The day William’s adoption became official was a life-changing moment for Paige.
Standing in the same courtroom where she had once fought for him, she felt the weight of everything they had been through.
When the judge declared William as her son and granted him her last name, emotions flooded in—joy, relief, and gratitude.
But the moment also served as a reminder of their challenges.
Despite the hardships, it was clear that every struggle had led to this meaningful and rewarding milestone.
Paige found strength in her family and the online community she built throughout her adoption journey.
During a time of significant life changes, she relied on her family for support while also connecting with other adoptive mothers through Instagram.
Sharing experiences and discussing the ups and downs of foster care and her single mother adoption journey helped her feel less alone, making the process easier to navigate.
Paige continues to move forward, now serving as a Family Specialist for a Foster Care Ministry.
She believes perseverance is key, using parenthood as an opportunity to teach her children about trust, healing, and hope.
In April 2023, she welcomed her second child, a baby girl. Introducing William to his new sister was a moment she will always treasure.
“Your child is learning from you — how to heal, how to trust, and how to believe in a future full of love,’ she said.
As a single mother, she embraces the challenge of raising two children nearly a decade apart, focusing on building their independence and resilience while showing them the strength of love and determination.
For Paige, the simplest moments—laughing together, watching movies, and their weekly Taco Tuesday—are the ones that matter most.
Paige views motherhood as a journey of strength and personal growth.
Her challenges pushed her beyond her limits, revealing resilience she never knew she had.
Providing for her children emotionally and physically gives her a deep sense of purpose.
Every sacrifice she makes is for their future, and seeing the impact of her efforts motivates her even more, making the experience deeply rewarding.
Paige encourages those considering adoption to reflect on their long-term goals and be ready for the emotional challenges of the journey.
She advises prospective parents to seek expert guidance, attend informational sessions, and connect with foster families for support.
Building a strong community, she says, can make the process smoother and more manageable.
While adoption is a rewarding experience, Paige acknowledges that it comes with difficulties.
She believes resilience is built through overcoming challenges and encourages others to stay strong through the ups and downs.
Looking ahead, she hopes her children, especially William, will confidently embrace their own stories.
She envisions a future where he uses his journey to inspire other children in the foster care system, knowing that his story is one of strength and hope.
“I believe his story has the power to inspire others, showing them that no matter the obstacles they face, there’s always the potential for a brighter future. I look forward to the day he’s ready to share it, knowing it will make a meaningful impact on those who need it most,” she concluded.
Here’s Paige with William on a TikTok video celebrating her single mother adoption journey:
@paigebram My boy 🥲
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