A Walmart encounter is the place for an amazing story of reunion and forgiveness when a former inmate mom and her biological son, whom she put up for adoption 18 years ago, met at the supercenter by chance.
In 2004, Amanda Rector, deep in addiction, had her second child, Hunter, who was born dependent on opioids and was swiftly removed from her care.
Prior to Hunter, Amanda had already lost custody of her older son, Jameson.
โI hated myself for using when I was pregnant,” Amanda told TODAY.com.
โWhen Hunter came out he was so uncomfortable, and my heart โฆ I just shut down. I knew if I looked at him for too long, I would start to hurt and I couldnโt feel that hurt.โ

Amanda had nothing for the baby when asked by a lady if she had a car seat or crib.
She acknowledged she couldn’t take the baby home.
She was living with an abusive boyfriend but despite being offered an extra night in the hospital after giving birth, she declined.
Amanda simply rolled over and said she wanted to go home.
Days later, Amanda returned to the hospital because her boyfriend had a heroin-related abscess.

They waited for about two hours in the emergency room before Amanda even considered seeing the baby, showing how troubled she was at that time.
On her way up to the nursery, Amanda saw her reflection in the elevator mirror, looking like a stranger with hair falling out and bruises and track marks on her body.
Despite considering going back to the emergency room, she felt compelled to move forward.
Eventually, she reached the nursery where Hunter was sleeping.
Summoning courage, Amanda requested to see her baby from a nurse who knew her story.
The nurse, visibly saddened by the situation, immediately agreed.
Leading Amanda and her baby to a cozy, dimly lit room with a rocking chair, the nurse left the door ajar, reassuring Amanda that she could take all the time she needed.

โAfter she left I looked down at him and started whispering in his ear, โIโm so sorry. This is not me. Iโm so sorry that this is your life,โโ Amanda says. โAll those feelings I had been bottling up cracked wide open.โ
Four months later, Hunter was adopted by a local family.
Then, Amanda was imprisoned for a robbery with a gun, serving two and a half years of a five-year sentence.
In prison, she found comfort in Christianity and participated in support groups and choir.
Reflecting on her journey, Amanda states she embraced anything positive or beneficial.
Before leaving prison, Amanda wrote to Hunter’s adoptive parents to ease any discomfort they might feel if they bumped into her, considering her dad attended the same church as them.
She mentioned she’d be attending a different church than her dad’s.

However, she never heard back from them.
They would occasionally see Hunter. Once, after Amanda regained custody of Jameson, they spotted Hunter at a cancer walk fundraiser.
Amanda described Hunter’s appearance, and when she pointed him out to Jameson, happy music started playing, and Hunter began dancing.
โWe just stood there like creepers and watched him for the duration of the song,โ she said. โI felt a peace come over me. It was as if God was saying, โHeโs dancing. Heโs happy.โโ
Amanda avoided approaching Hunter, similar to how she’d write letters to him but never actually send them. She believed it wasn’t her place to do so.

Fourteen years later, Amanda spotted Jameson, now 21, chatting with a girl at Walmart.
The girl recognized Jameson and pointed out Hunter as his brother.
Later, Amanda discovered that Hunter, curious about his birth mother, had recently learned her identity.
โI was speechless. I couldnโt believe it was happening,โ Amanda says. โI didnโt know if he was going to be mad at me and cuss me out. And I would have been OK with that.โ
However, that moment was the beginning of a:n amazing story of reunion and forgiveness.
Amanda and Hunter warmly hugged each other. Despite Amanda letting go first to avoid discomfort, Hunter held on. They then sat and chatted briefly.

Hunter, who is 19, expressed disbelief at the encounter.
โI had just been talking about wanting to meet Amanda and then she appeared,โ he says. โIf I wasnโt God-centered, I donโt believe any of this would have happened.โ
Before parting, Amanda and Hunter exchanged numbers and planned to meet again. She became emotional once they were out of sight.
Hunter, who deeply respects his parents, meets Amanda weekly.
She’s been sober for 17 years, helping others with substance abuse issues. Amanda also shares her prison experiences on TikTok, where she has a large following.
Hunter expresses pride in Amanda’s transformation and the bond they now share.
Watch Amanda talk about the moment she met Hunter by chance at Walmart:
@prison_story Imagine wondering for 18 years if he hated you only to find out he saw it as an act of love #adoption #birthmom #update #grace #forgiveness #Jesus #God #HolySpirit #setfree #recovery โฌ original sound – Amanda Dove โค๏ธ
You can also follow Amanda on TikTok where she shares her stories while and after prison.
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