Someone once asked me how I hold my head up so high after all I’ve been through. I said, it’s because no matter what, I am a survivor. Not a victim. — Patricia Buckley
Don’t take anything personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. — Miguel Ruiz
There are many ways to manage fear, but I believe it’s more important to realize you are not a helpless victim, you are not a fly caught in a spider web, and that even if bad things happened before, it doesn’t mean they will again. You CAN protect yourself. You CAN deal with the fear.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean you excuse the crime. It just means you’re no longer willing to be the victim. — Unknown Give The Ones You Love The GIFTS Of Inspiration